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Crazy Dreams

Dreams about Exes

I have dreams about my exes a lot. I don’t know maybe it’s my subconscious not happy that I continuously fail at relationships and it force me to re-evaluate what I may or may not be doing that chases these men away. This dream was quite interesting.  I was in my old house and I was talking to my ex trying to see if we could get back together. He said he was interested in another woman who had a daughter about his daughter age. That she was what he preferred, curvy and hood. I was sad, but I kept pleading my case. Than two young girls about 10-15 came in the room.  The woman he was interested in who was fairer skin than me. My ex had professed he likes brown skin curvy woman. This always made me smile. The new woman throw me off, but all of a sudden his ex-wife came in  in a suit and heels. She was short and round,( I have never seen a picture of her so I am unsure). He started kissing on the other woman. His ex-wife looked at me and said “You should have known you was the rebound. You are only good enough to be a mistress.” I woke from that dream with an urge to pee, which I was unable to do, because my mom was on the toilet.

Date #2 with a Previous Dater

So last night I went on a date with a dude I attempted to date three years ago. It was during my infamous, I still want my ex but I have to date other men to make sure. During that time me and said Ex was over, but once a month we texted each other or call. I still was in love and holding out hope we would be together after we lived life.  During that time I was trying Craigslist out for dating. I was so happy that I did not get killed or stalked by anyone I met off of Craigslist.  One of the men I met, we will call him King for confidential sake, was interesting. His post read like he was genuine, funny, intellectual, and normal.  I emailed him and we talked/ texted each other. We seem to have some stuff  in common, such as martial art movies, video games, love for technology. I should state even though I don’t stay super current with my tech gadgets it because I rather save money in my bank account. I am always reading different technology websites, and blogs.  We finally went on a first date and it tanked horribly. My fault I suppose, I chose a restaurant that was out of my budget. He mumbled and I could barely read lips. I was nervous and my friends kept texting me to make sure I was ok. I was unsure to say we should hug or we should get drinks. My attire was meh. I remember I wore my dark blue jeans, with a black shirt and a pinstripe vest. My hair was as always rebelling against lying flat. I realized my hair enjoys defying gravity.  The date end and I felt as though I failed horribly. We had a few more dates, but I figured he wanted a more sophisticated, mature, self-confident, and less awkward woman.

We sort of lost contact and my Ex proceed to return to my life just to leave again.  Well we reconnected and tried to go on a date again. I think in life there are some people who first date are to fail miserably.  The Second attempt of this date failed just as bad. We went to a movie Screener down in DC it was so overbooked like if the theater held 500 they had 1000 people there. He did allude that he would have come much earlier to stake out a seat. Strike one on me.  We talked and laughed while we waited for the bad news. I enjoyed the conversation and he was still witty.  I like the fact he automatically seemed like a protector, maybe it’s his stance or presence but I always felt safe around him. Even though he said if I popped off at the mouth I was on my own.  When we left I suggest going to the Indian Chipotle style restaurant Mehrzi.  He didn’t seem thrilled so I suggested Astro doughnuts and chicken. Even though I knew it was closed they closed as soon as they sell out.  We continued to talk he always stayed to the right of me. I thank his mother and other females who raised him right. When we got to the metro station, I admitted I was unsure what to do should I fist bump, handshake or hug him. I really wanted to kiss him passionately and whisper “Take me home with you” but I am trying to be a lady.  He looked at me and said “You really are awkward.” He hugged me there was no pat on the back and we departed. I told him the next time he has to plan it, every time I tried it failed horribly.  He smiled.   I did a polite text saying hey it was nice seeing him again and don’t be a stranger.  Followed by a meme I found that said “I don’t need to flirt. I will seduce you with my awkwardness” His response was that sound about right. 

I won’t sugar coat it , I wish Me and King would work out. He is the very definition of the type of man I want. Thinking back on it, he probably the reason, I knew that I and my EX was not a good fit.  King just has a way about him sot smug or arrogant just confident.  He is successful, lived his life, likes to have fun but he not out all the time. He is sarcastic and witty but not to the point where its mean or venom filled.  When I am around him I feel safe and like I can be me. The drawback he a catch and he knows it so, you have to be special to get him to settle down. I am not sure he is ready to settle down or if I am what he is looking for in a woman.  This is not to put myself down, but Men have types or attributes they want in woman also. If I have 6 out of 10 well, there a good chance he can find someone that has 8 out of 10. He likes his privacy. He once told me that once I accepted who I was my anxiousness would decrease and my self-confidence would increase. He was right. Truthfully, maybe he just my reminder, that I don’t have to settle for any man out there, that men like him exist and I just have to have patience.  I really hope I can get a second-second date. Like I told him I will seduce him with my Awkwardness.

Hmmm Dating its …..

I went on an impromptu date last night to a sushi place. It was cool. I do enjoy the Veteran conversation. I am getting use to his mannerisms; he has a habit of being slightly effeminate.  He moves his hands a lot, rolls his eyes. He makes for good conversations, until he shows his racist card. I had a $20 Gift certificate to the Sushi place and I tried to order just enough I really didn’t want to go over $30.   Talking we touched on topic such as skin color and its effects on Black culture, Star Trek and if it’s a remake or an inversion of the Wrath of Khan.  We talked about the food and other things. He is quite awkward, and admits he has a monotone voice and is corny. I appreciate the honesty, it fine with me I am allowed to be myself around him. Here is where the issue lies, when the bill came out. It was $17, I asked if he wanted to split it and he turned his face up in a disgusting no she did not just ask me to pay manner. Was I in the wrong? I mean I asked if he wanted to join me for dinner?  I don’t mind but I am the one with gift certificate.  When he invited me out to dinner last time, we split the bill. He did not even offer to pick up the whole bill and I was actually low on money that time.  He order more food than me and was I wrong to expect him to pay less than $10. I was not completely sure.  I do know this left me with a bad taste in my mouth. One that makes me wonders about the state of dating in America. Has all the need to push and have equal right killed chivalry? The veteran may have lost out on the lemongrass date due to his … moment. Its cool he didn’t even offer me a chance to go to a Wine tasting.  Well tonight I will be going out on another date with an old… flame… acquaintance.  I am not sure how to categorize him. I hop maybe I can make the right strides with him. I went on two dates with him back in 2009/10. I feel like I struck out each time. The first time I picked a too expensive restaurant trying to impress and almost broke my budget. The second time, I picked a cheap place but had left over food which he looked down on. I don’t know why I am trying for date after almost 2 years of non-communication. I hope that I matured and feel more comfortable around him. He makes me nervous, and anxious. If not I chalk it up to at least I tired which always makes me feel slightly better.

Shows that are being cancelled this year or are already cancelled.

Deception (NBC): Cancelled. Saw that coming it was too complicated.

Animal Practice (NBC): Put down. DAMN but it wasn only ha funny instead of ha ha funny. It would have done better on TBS or comedy central.

Do No Harm (NBC): Harmed.  Again its was cool just too complicated in my opinion. 

30 Rock (NBC): Over. It had a good run. I will miss Liz Lemon and Jack Doughay

Guys with Kids (NBC): You can’t believe how cancelled this is. Again it was competiting with New Girl and Mindy Project. It had a good premise but not a good flow.

The Office (NBC): Closed. It went two seasons tooo long. It made me love Craig Robinson more.

Smash (NBC): Smushed. I knew it was going to happen I thought it would happen last year.

Up All Night (NBC): Christina Applegate quit: This was cancelled … by its own star! DAMN! WHY! I guess it wasn't going the direction she wanted.

Whitney (NBC): Thankfully. WHY? But WHY? I loved this show it was witty, different and a throwback to the 80's style of comedy.

1600 Penn (NBC): Impeached. I can't believe it was stopped after the pilot. Maybe its me it was just tooo goofy. It would have had a better home on the CW on Sunday night at 7:30 pm.

Made in Jersey (CBS): Terminated. LOL. LOL. USA has better shows.

Private Practice (ABC): Spin-off heaven. Again it went one too many seasons. 

Partners (CBS): Dumped.  It just was not on a good nioght. it could have worked with a better comedy line up like Wed or Friday.

Ben & Kate (Fox): & Cancelled. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooo! I am extremely sorry about this. I love this show. I could see it going place and had potetial to grow. This is what happen to funny witty comedies.

Vegas (CBS): Lost. Yeah IDK why did it make it this far.

Go On (NBC): Get out. NOOOOO. Matthew Perry comes up with good shows and ideas but I guess people don't get it. Please do what Courtney Cox did and find a Cable station. The world not ready for your type of comedy.

Fringe (Fox): R.I.P. One season tooo long.

Touch (Fox): Touchable. It was too complicated for basic americans, besides Jack Bauer you have to save the world not you son.

The Job (CBS): What? I never even heard of this show...

The Mob Doctor (Fox): Ha! That title. Yeah. Deceased. This show should have been on CBS it has the right audeince and it would have understood the time slot that would be best for it. Fox is not good at programming and time slots.

Don’t Trust the B– in Apt. 23 (ABC): Speaking of: Did anyone really believe a comedy with “B—-” in the title was going to last? I was hoping it would I mean it was quite funny and I loved Zooey. It had potential. I mean it made it to a second season.

666 Park Avenue (ABC): Hellbound. I am sorry you would have been awesom on SyFy, they would have known the audience and would have sold you for what you were not an upscale drama. 

Last Resort (ABC): Indeed. This should have been a mini series.... Come on ABC it ok to do mini series it would have been good and you could have developed it better.

Rules of Engagement (CBS): Broken. LOL. I can't believe that you lasted this long at all. WHAT in the world. Don't get me wrong some of your shows were funny but truthfully you should have lasted 3 seasons.

Golden Boy (CBS): Tarnished. Huh? This was a Show....

CSI: NY (CBS): Two down, one to go. Thank Goodness. You are not this decades Law and Order.

Zero Hour (ABC): Zero something all right. What? This was a show?

Emily Owens, M.D. (The CW): Crashed. They sold you as a comedy instead of a drama. The producers should have asked Shonda Rhimes for advice! 

How to Live with Your Parents (ABC): Evicted. It just got started! ABC this should have been a win you should move it to ABC family!

Red Widow (ABC): Exterminated. What? Another show I knew nothing about!

Body of Proof (ABC): D.O.A. Potential but not a good audience. ABC again stop with reality TV and cultivate good quality Shows.

The New Normal (NBC): Or not. NOooooooo!!! I wanted to see how Bryan handled a toddler, Shanea see if she contiues quirky or blossoms. NeNe was good int his show. NBC I expected better from you seriously!

Family Tools (ABC): Put away. Blank stare this was a show?

Malibu Country (ABC): Overthrown. Again I think you would have done better on cable TV like TV Land or ABC family.

Happy Endings (ABC): Until this happened. ABC you just want to ge rid of the 25-35 crowd! This was a show that was funny, zany and quite honestly LOL. It could go up against New Girl if you kept it on one night.

90210 (The CW): Finished. Thank goodness. I am sorry this show doesn't hold a candle to the real 90210.

 

Cult (The CW): Unfollowed. ... This was a show... Hmmm I must not wathc TV.

UPDATES TO COME…. REFRESH FOR LATEST…

THESE ARE SOME SHOWS STILL ON BUBBLE OR FATE UNCONFIRMED

Sunday Night _ another craptastic Poem

Sunday Night

I sit here on a Sunday night. 
Missing you. 
Wanting you. 
Haven't found nobody to replace you.
I really don't want anyone to replace you. 
But this feeing I feel is pointless. 
I missed your smile, your kiss, your laugh. 
Your happy now, without me. 
Who am I to mess with your peace.
 My selfishness leaves me in a place of hurt. 
I want you in my life. 
Tears forming and my  heart is hurting.
It's my fault. 
My happiness means nothing while I place your feelings above mine? 
Sadness pain just any object of sex.. 

I miss you-- poem ( its bad)

I miss you.
I hate those words. 
He said them to me last night. 
I miss you. 
But do you miss me or miss my body. 
Do you miss my laugh my humor.
 Or you just miss my body my legs. 
You miss my kiss. Soft and sweet. 
You miss my hands as they trace across your back.
 You don't miss me
You miss my body how my legs engulf you. 
How my lips entice you. You miss the wet and warmth. 
You don't miss me. 

Chevy Impala --- A poem

Chevy Impala
I sit in your Impala wondering what you are thinking.
I use to read your vibe with ease but now you hide it from me. 
My mind has decided that I should leave your not ready for me. 
My body not ready to leave it wants to feel you one more time. 
Jill Scott plays in the background playing the song that says "why does my body ignore what my mind says". Time passes slowly. kiss me already but no kiss. 
Maybe this was a mistake. 
Maybe this ended the way it did. 
Finally you kiss me. 
Soft lips, cold hands.
 I remember why we worked. 
You already have you hand in place that needed care. 
I switch to my primal side knowing to reciprocate. 
No are kisses don't taste like honey or soft like pillows. 
They are electric, full of lust and desire.
 I want you and no one else. 
You think when I tell you it's yours it's a joke. 
No it's your no one elses. 
Already pants off in your chevy impala. 
Lips in places that haven't been touched since the last time you touched it.
 Drenching just from your kiss. 
You look me in the eyes just to say you miss me. 
I never left you did I want to say.
 But your trapped is laid.
 I fall victim to your eyes, your lips, your dick. 
Hands so cold rub against my breast.
 Tourture me slowly with your cold warmth.

LivingSocial Dates

Date Ideas For the Adventerous

Ziplining and Beer Tasting from LivingSocial's.

This is the best date for adventurous is individual.  Living Social, offers this cool deal which is a tad expensive for $89 per person.  I think this is great date idea for a weekend in spring. It’s Different, and you are able to see how adventurous your partner is, afterwards relax and get beers. Also if your partner is wack you can meet new people.

What you get

• High Ropes Treetop Adventure Course and Beer Tasting!
• Round-Trip Transportation from LivingSocial's 918 F Street
• LivingSocial Staff to Guide You
• Activities at Go Ape:

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• Ziplines, High Wires, and Tricky Crossings
• Field Games
• Light Snacks + S'mores
• Activities at Growlers of Gaithersburg:

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• Three-Flight Beer Tasting
• Hot Appetizer Buffet

Check out this offer: a day of outdoor ziplining followed by a beer tasting at a nearby tavern, including transportation.

Pay $89 (a $170 value) and head to LivingSocial's 918 F Street building on select Saturdays and Sundays in March to board a coach bus headed for Go Ape, an outdoor activity center set amid breathtaking scenery in Rockville, Maryland.

https://www.livingsocial.com/events/597082-ziplining-and-beer-tasting

Flying high is not you thing well what about White Water Rafting.

Ultimate Whitewater Weekend Getaway

River Expeditions • Oak Hill, WV

Again this is more so for the adventerous people who like to live life instead of  living in the margins. The cost of the living social deal is a expensive for $95 but I think its worth for everything you get listed below.

What you get•Overnight Whitewater Rafting Trip with Lodging

•Meals, Happy Hours, After-Party with All-You-Can-Drink PBR, Live Music, and More

•Tons of Discounted Additional Activities on Sunday

•Adventures Staff to Guide You

Keep pace with the season -- and get a real rush while you're at it -- with this fast-moving offer: a two-night weekend whitewater rafting and camping trip in the West Virginia wilderness.

On select weekends in April and May, you can join our expert LivingSocial staff and guides at River Expeditions in Oak Hill, West Virginia, for a truly raucous adventure that lasts from Friday night to Sunday afternoon. You'll have a choice of six different lodging options, each including a whitewater rafting ticket for each member of the group:

•bring your own tent for your private tent site ($95)

•bring your own sleeping bag and stay in a friend's tent ($95)

•One spot in a shared rustic cabin for six. Fill out this survey for housing requests ($139)

You are looking for more sensual and romantic dates or your woman/man can’t cook.  Here this living social deal is for you couples cooking class.  You get to taste, touch, kiss, and learn to properly cook a meal for each other or you next.

Couples' Cooking Class

• Friday, April 5 – 6:30PM

What you get

• Three-Hour Hands-On Couples' Cooking Class

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• $149 for Couples' Admission
• $189 for Couples' VIP Admission that Includes Seats in the Chef's Corner and Two Souvenir 918 F Street Glasses
• $79 for Single Admission
• Prepare Three Courses: Baked Brie, Salmon, Chocolate Mousse, and More
• Top-Notch Culinary Instructor

Culinary wisdom tells us that couples who cook together stick together, so break up with your trusty drawer of take-out menus when you take a bite out of today's offer: $149 for admission for you and your sweetie to a three-hour cooking class at the state-of-the-art test kitchen at LivingSocial's 918 F Street. You'll learn how to prepare a romantic three-course meal (see menu below!) with hands-on instruction from esteemed Chef Matt Finarelli. To really get close to the action, pay $189 for VIP seats in the Chef's Corner, and you'll also leave with souvenir 918 F Street glasses. Or if you're a party of one, pay $79 for single's admission.

Cookies & Corks: Cookie Tasting + Wine Pairing

LivingSocial's 918 F Street • Washington, DC

• Friday, March 15 – 5:30PM, 8:00PM
• Saturday, March 16 – 5:30PM, 8:00PM
• Tuesday, March 19 – 6:00PM
• Sunday, April 7 – 5:30PM, 8:00PM
• Thursday, April 11 – 6:00PM
• Saturday, April 20 – 5:30PM, 8:00PM

What you get

• 90-Minute Class from Cookies & Corks by CookieZen
• Enjoy Five Different Cookies (Two of Each) Paired with Four Wine Tastings
• Take-Home Cookies & Corks Pairing Box with 15 Cookies

After diamonds, we'd say a girl's best friend is cookies. And wine. Buddy up with both when you spend $39 for a 90-minute cookie tasting with wine pairings class from Cookies & Corks By CookieZen at LivingSocial's 918 F Street. Forge friendship with five gourmet cookies -- Zesty Lemon, Sea Salt Chocolate Oatmeal, Apricot Sage, White Cheddar Rosemary, and Espresso Chocolate Peanut Butter -- when you get two of each to pair with tastings of Pinot Noir, Cabernet Sauvignon, Sauvignon Blanc, and Prosecco. Led by real-life friends Leah Kuo and Laura Englander, you'll learn how to make sure your cookies and wine get along swimmingly. Solidify your friendship with the only take-home gift better than a friendship bracelet: a cookie pairing box.

nibble, sip, savor

You don’t have to be a baker or sommelier to know what goes well with your favorite wine. And that’s thanks to another perfect pair: Leah Kuo and Laura Englander, the women behind Cookies & Corks by CookieZen. Combining a love of cookies and wine, this duo creates artisan, gourmet cookies made to complement any varietal. This is your failsafe way to pair off with the perfect flavor duo.

So cooking not you thing well everyone loves Cookies ( if you don’t please go to the corner and sit quietly) and wine ( double yes) the cost is much more cost effective for the sequester that is taking place right now.  Chocolate Chip cookies with a nice Merlot red wine or a white zinfadel with Shortbread cookies.

Attempt at Creative Writing.....

         
            Here I am trying to get ready for the club and my hair a mess. I can’t get it to lay flat or curl. I t won’t even wrap like it suppose to. Arrgh, sometimes I hate going out but Tia and Casey said it would be good for me.  About three months ago, my boyfriend of two years decides he wanted to see other people. I didn’t think of it something bad just, he wanted something new, something fresh. So I quietly went on with my life and decide to focus on other things like work and self-improvement.  Tia thought it was my way of not dealing with the pain, which it was. Casey, on the other hand, thought it was because I was hoping after he dated a few girls that he would come back to me with his tail between his legs begging me to come back.  To be truthful, both of them were correct. I mean after investing time in a man, not a raggedy man but a good man he decides he wants to upgrade to a new woman for curiosity sake. 

            But I digress; I was trying to get ready for the club, so I brought a new outfit and decide to have fun. I put on the radio while still trying to get my hair right, and this club banger came on. I stopped and started dancing to the beat and singing the words, “I ‘m going to Dance my pain away, I got problems, Dance my Pain away, I got Problems…” I continued to sing the words to the song until I realized it was 15 minutes until I had to met Tia and Casey at Tia’s house. I quickly decide it wasn’t worth trying to curl my hair. I made a part on the left making sure it looked well moisturized and gel the back down to prevent the appearance of the new undergrowth.  I grabbed the rest of my jewelry, shoes and ran out the apartment quickly.  I bumped into on of the tenants going down the steps.

 “Watch out, sexy you might catch your self a man tonight.”, he said casually with a hint of confidence. I smiled and began to blush a little after his comment.   I continued on my run to the car in my four inch heels. Once to the car toke one heal off to drive with my flip flops for some reason I can’t drive in heels.

            As I head over to Tia House I realized that, I didn’t put any deodorant on as a slight odor began to develop. Luckily I was right at the corner of Tia Street. I made a sharp left turn into a parking spot. My car was crooked but it it in a spot and right in front of her house. I looked around and didn’t see Casey car as I approached her front door. I knocked three times when, she flew it open as, she greeted me with a bubbly happiness. I wish I could describe her reaction but it was a mix between urban coolness and true happiness like she just found her long lost sister with hints of realizing you so close to finishing a certain task. Tia used me in the house and gave me a once over.

            “Girl, you look gorgeous with sex appeal oozing from every crevice you have!” she said as her eyes got bigger. “Are you going to put on some jewelry on?”

“Oh yeah I didn’t want to be late.” As I held up my small white plastic bag, and head towards her bathroom.

“And Hannah, you might want to change on of your shoes” She yelled out to me as I proceeded to go into the bathroom. I looked down briefly and realized that I still had my flip flop on.  I proceed to put my sliver accessories on, I figured if my hair looked plain than Glamorize everything else. I had silver hoop earrings on that seem to get bigger with each hoop. I had a purple and silver necklace that shimmered just right when any type of light hit it. Of course silver bangles on both wrist to  My dress was the same color of my necklace a warm summery purple, with silver hoops that tied around the back of my neck. I wore my black heels because of the hits of silver plus my purse was black.  Once everything was finished I was thrilled by the look. It seemed sexy yet classy.

             As I head down stairs I heard Casey come in with her outrageously loud outfit, all I heard was clanking. As I went down stairs I saw why it clanked she wore her stripper out fit that had beads and fringes of plastic beads that hung every where.  She had gold accessory even gold along her eye shadow.  Even her pants had beads and fringes on it.  Tia was cool she wore basic brown but some how it seemed more than just brown which made it extra sexy. 

             “Some one’s going to get man tonight!” as her voice seemed a million times louder and nasally. “Naw were all going to get a man tonight!” as she picked her purse up and head toward the door. “So are you’ll ready?” as she put her hands on the door knob about to open the door.

            “Yeah.” Tia exclaimed pushing me out her house. We rode out Exodus in Casey Jeep which was freshly clean. When we got to t eh club there was no line. I figured it was a slow night it since it was 11:30.  Once inside there was nothing but women laughing and giggling and dancing.  I thought to myself no man catching tonight, as I proceed to the dance floor and danced. Casey and Tia followed as we dance to the music. The music was okay as the DJ mixed Old school reggae with Reggaton which created a blend of winding and grinding dancing. No men came up to dance with use they just stood off to the side drinking whatever the choice of drink was that night.  After a while the ones who had enough liquor in them came up and danced. Tia had zoned out to the music so most me just approached me and Casey. Casey danced with every man that crossed her path. I danced with a few but most of them was old enough to be my father and Several of them proceed to attempted to penetrated me through my clothes. After three men got too personal with my thighs I sat down. My feet were killing me, so I decide to sit for a second. I began taking of my heels to see if any blister were forming. When this man approached me. “Excuse me, would you like me to rub your feet?” I looked up to see an attractive man standing over me about to sit down.  I was taken back by his question, after a moment, I finally answered “Umm…. No but thanks for the offer.” I slipped my shoe back on but he proceeded to sit beside me. “My name is Ronald, and your is …” as he smiled inching closer “Hannah.” I finally got up to head back to the dance floor, but Ronald stopped me and asked if I would like a drink. “No, I don’t know you like that.” I made my over to Casey and began dancing. About five minutes later some guy started dancing with me.  It was cool he wasn’t trying to rape me through my clothes and he actually had rhythm. Then the same voice as before, whispered in my ear “ I would like to know you a little better so how about we go grab a bite to eat at the all night dinner up the street.” Ronald was dancing and grinding with me. I thought to myself I might as well grab a bite to eat and I would like to get to know him better. So I whispered back only if my friends can come ?” He shook his head leaning over  with the scent of unforgivable playing in my nose slow arousing me “ Just meet me at the front door in 10 min.” Just as he walked away I felt someone grab my arm. “Girl who was that?” asked Casey noticing she was missing some of her outfit. “Oh… some guy I just met his name Ronald, he asked if we wanted to grab a quick meal up at Grandma Bella’s” Casey paused for a second, thinking “Okay lets find Tia and leave. As we moved through the crowd of people I notice Tia in the corner of the club lip locking with some dude. He wasn’t attractive so we figured Tia must have been drunk. We pulled Tia away with no protest. Usually pulling someone away with no protest meant she only was teasing him and he probably was high and drunk to. When we got to the front door, I saw Ronald and three other men. They were nice, equally good looking in their own way none of them had any enduring qualities. We all left for Bella’s, once there we found a table for seven. Once seated conversation began to pick up nothing great the usually how the club music was, the food, a little bit about each other. Casey and Tia weren’t really feeling the other men, but then again there tastes in men were different.  During the meal, Ronald made an interesting comment about bumping into his neighbor who was in a rush.  Then it donned on me Ronald was my neighbor from next floor. I had bumped into rushing out of the building.  After paying the bill he slipped me his cell phone number and told me to call him. We parted ways after that. Once getting in the Truck Casey started talking “Hannah, your something, got four men to pay our dinner, to bad they wasn’t more street.” As began driving back to Tia’s. “I know” said Tia, “shit I don’t know what you did to them but shit girl, we got to go out more than this, free dinners after dancing” She continued to talk about one of the men that was with us and saying she wouldn’t mind getting to know him better. As we pulled up to Tia house we each went our separate ways. As I proceed to my apartment I looked at his number and wondered if I should call him. I mean my feet were hurting and a free foot won’t really lead to anything. I mean we might kiss a little, but I will get my foot rub and felt up a little and leave and keep him as a friend. As I parked the car in the lot, I saw him walking toward the building. I quickly locked the door and hasten my step toward him. Just as he proceeded up the step I stopped him. “ Hey Ronald, I was wondering if the foot rub was still available?” He sheepishly, smiled and said “ Of course, your place or mine?”

           I know crappy right! but hey i was bored.

Date ideas...

Date Ideas for March 2013:

Last night I had a man allude to the idea that they wanted to go to the movies. The picked the Beltway movies and they are showing films that came out last year (Argo, Life of Pi, Django and Zero Dark Thirty). I should warn you, I only am interested in two movies on here; one is Life of Pi and Django. I have already seen Django. Right now, my mind needs easing and not thought provoking such as Life of Pi.  I realized men are still failing at good quality dates.  I love movie dates, but not when they are half-assed. A movie can tell you a lot about a person, are they happy go lucky, as they depressed, are they intellectual. I am a simple person, so I need more of an Action movie or comedy. I am not trying to over think and really just want to relax and leave the theater either happy or excited.  Here are some groupon date ideas that I think people would like and are cheap.

Movie Groupon Date

So they always have cheap movie dates on Groupon, I used Groupon to see Skyfall with me and my friend we got popcorn and sodas all for $21. I only paid like $10 for the groupon.  The below groupon is for two different locations.  You can choose Between Two Options,

•$15.25 for two movie tickets and one medium popcorn (a $30.50 value)

•$30 for four movie tickets and two medium popcorns (a $61 value)

http://www.groupon.com/deals/east-point-10-movie-theater-1?c=dnb&p=4

If you are not into these theaters you can always travel down to Linthicum to Hoyts West Nursery Cinemas

Choose Between Two Options

•$11 for one movie ticket, one large popcorn, and one large soda on Monday–Thursday (up to a $23 value)

•$11 for one movie ticket, one large popcorn, and one large soda on Friday–Sunday (up to a $23 value)

http://www.groupon.com/deals/hoyts-west-nursery-cinemas-1?pt=aUTSxRjAAAAAU-Ga9-HfOkPr_Pqyp9loB

Suggestion for movies to see:

Identity Theft – its stupid ha-ha funny

The Great and Powerful Oz – A modern and CGI twist to the prelude to the Wizard of Oz

Jack the Giant Slayer- Despite idea its bad, it may actually be good enough for a date.

What if the person you are into is not about going to the movies. Well you can dance the night away at the Get Down.

The Get Down –Fells Point

For $14 you can take your friend male or female out for a night of dancing and drinks. This date is good for people who are into dancing.  It's hard to stand still at The Get Down, the DJs spin energetic dance tunes and a full bar keeps guests coming back for more. The Get Down has a diverse crowd for dancing, shaking your booty to underground, house, and old-school mixes.

http://www.groupon.com/deals/the-get-down

Let be honest, going out to eat always works also, Next post Living Social Dates 

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Hello Readers,

So over the course of the next few weeks. I will be posting, some stories. I use to write stories, back when I was younger, but I stopped cause I hated people Critiques of them. I will be posting different sections of this one Story I came up. I will also be posting, about some of my dreams I have recorded. I hope those who read my blog enjoys. I will try harder to proofread the post. I will never claim to be a writer. I am just a blogger that thinks a lot. I will add some of the date post again. I also have some other post I have been working on. I hope the coming months, that you the readers will enjoy.

Sincerely,

Deaverster

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Quick list of Rapers and Hip-Hop Artist how I categories them...

Top MC’s from a random view:

 Hip-Hop Artist that makes money: These artist make money look easy, they have been featured on Forbes, BET, or Kiplinger’s for their business prowess. At the end of the day hustlin’ helps in the Hip-Hop World and the real world.

1.       Jay-Z

2.       P.Diddy

3.       50 Cent

4.       T.I.

 MC’s that are EMO (emotional). These artist are overall emotional and emote, their feeling on record or in public. These are the dudes other rappers clown, but find ways to get them to rap on their track.

1.       Drake

2.       Kid Cudi

3.       Kanye West

4.       J. Cole

5.       Lupe Fiasco

MC’s that are Fat: Dude they are fat. Well Fat Joe lost weight, but…he was much Jollier Fat.

1.       Biggie Smalls

2.       Big Pun

3.       Fat Joe

4.       Rick Ross

MC’s that don’t get respect: They just don’t get respect from other or from Radio. They have been neglected by awards, or not getting airplay.  The funn thing is they are actually really, good. They have quotable lyrics.

1.       Eminime

2.       NAS

3.       Common

4.       Childish Gambino

5.       Wale

MC’s whose careers came back from the dead, between Reality TV ( thank you love and hip hop), New music releases and Technology. Members of this list have made a small return to Hip-Hop converstations.

1.       Fabolous

2.       Joe Budden

3.       50 Cent (he need to be careful on wrong beef and he will be buried in the hip-hop grave yard).

4.       Tupac ( hologram)

5.       Jeezy

MC that may have a career after this year: They just came out in the laast 18 months and they have been pumping the airwaves, social media and regular media with their music. A$ap Rocky will be an interesting one, some people have known about him for a minute but you never know with society today.

1.       2Chainz

2.       A$ap Rocky***

3.       Future

4.       Meek Millz

5.       Kendrick Lamar

MC’s that look like they are dirty: They look dirty. They may not be dirty but they look like the dude you duck from in the club. Like they didn’t take a shower or they forgot to brush their teeth.

1.       Juvenile

2.       Trinidad James

3.       Jim Jones

4.       Lil’ Wayne

MC that should only make Club music: Enough said club music!

1.       Waka Flacka

2.       French Montana

3.       Nelly

Rapper that get more respect overseas. I think these three men get mad love over sea. I can understand why they transcend Hip-Hop and even POP. They are just cool and make great music.

1.        B.O.B.

2.       Kid Cudi

3.       Lupe Fiasco

Where are they now?

1.       Outkast

2.       Talib Kweli

3.       Common

4.       Freeway

5.       Soulja Boy

6.       Mos Def

7.       Redman and Method Man