Family and Love is nothing like Love and Hip-Hop. There are no crazy moments, but sometime influential people in our lives dislike the person we love. I am finding that out right now, with my loved one. I realized that sometimes, out happiness doesn’t always fall into line with what family thinks. Family members don’t always think someone is good enough, they don’t see the negative within them. They don’t want to remember what it was like for them to be single; the missteps, the wrong timing, the overestimation of feelings. All they see is your dating a separated man, or he works at McDonald’s, which sometimes both are credible, but not always. The truth is family never seem to like our choices in partners. What I realize is, they don’t want us to make the same missteps they made. They don’t want us to fall for the Okie dokie with men or women. They don’t us to be the mistress, and deal with I am not leaving my partner. They don’t want to see us hurt or sad. The thing we have to remember is that dislike comes from a place of love. We as daters should uses that moments of distrust to remind ourselves logically speaking there are signs of betrayal that appear early and pay heed. Not to let our family member words keep us from love.
*Again this is a quick rambling. I did not proofread and it maybe incoherent.
--deaverster
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